I am requesting a prayer for my troubled marriage. Pray that God may give my wife a tender heart and get rid of bitterness, wrath and suspicions. I also pray that God may help me bear with her and love her nevertheless. There was a time i took out a girl who was taking care of her for lunch, and this caused hullabaloo since December last year.I apologised and asked for forgiveness, but she says she needs time to heal.Its been half year already.I have taken care of her when she had serious burns and it is because I love her.She does not believe I do. She has lots of resentment. The other observation is that her mother has resented her father for very long – over 40 years…and i am afraid that this has been passed on to her.I pray for peace and for our kids 16, 9, and 5.The 9-year-old one a boy seems very affected by the toxic environment.My wife also suspects the house girls of stealing when it might not necessarity be the case always and this also creates a toxic envioronment.We may lose a very Godly housegirl who has stayed with us for 5 years, because of suspicions of stealing.My wife cannot be corrected – she says she is justified to for instance call me a fool, and also justified to suspect the housegirl.She believes she is right always. Please pray for our marriage and for me personally, give me peace.We are both born again.I am fighting for the marriage to stand.I am out of the country from today for about 5 days and I plan not to talk to her and give her the space she needs.