many times as their original mother that we all need to involve a therapist and a mediator, they use their kids as pawns to not visit with me their mother and this time because they refuse to involve a therapist and a mediator, and to reconcile at all, I did not choose to go any further in the toxic relationship we been having and I told them I am willing to forgive and still continue to pray to God concerning them but that will be all. I told them they shall reap what they sowed I was never honored and respected, their father has been abusive all through the two marriages we had and use our kids as pawns and to be flying monkeys to monitor their mother. Their father have been angry at me for going no contact