Not sure what to say I’ve been married for 29 years 5 years we were separated because of his drug abuse we ended up getting back together and we’re still together but we’ve never really been friends and I have a hard time listening to anything he says and he tells me I must not really love God because I don’t obey him so I’m really down because I’m in a marriage that I really care not to be in but I stay because I guess that’s what I’m supposed to do, my daughter stay busy so I don’t have to spend too much time with him and that really aggravates him I guess it’s not very nice in my part that’s just how I’ve been able to deal with this marriage and I need to be able to submit to God more and obey